Communicating with your client, I noticed how often in our conversations there is the phrase " and then I decided to contact the detective agency." It was decided. Then I wondered what stops the ladies why they often months of hatching a decision to seek assistance from the detective. My first thought was that the most difficult to decide whether I want to know, especially if the knowledge is likely to be unpleasant. But practice shows that the units prefer blissful ignorance. We can for years "to focus not see" any evidence, but if it crept into our soul suspicion Uncertainty plagues worse than any torture.
Later, I had formulated the main "barriers" that women have to overcome before they turn to private detective: "What do think of me?" Oddly enough, this barrier is not only to family problems. Sometimes it is easier to talk about suspicions against husband than that, you become a victim of fraud, or about squabbles in the workplace. Believe me, nothing wrong with that, the detective – is in many ways a psychoanalyst who listens to you and help sort out your problems. "And you this is why? "Often the client's very wary of this issue. I can assure you, this question could be asked only to improve performance, but not to expose you to inappropriate curiosity. "Not accepted" To Unfortunately, yes, is not accepted. If you tell a friend that was at the dentist, then no one will arise the question "why?", But the visit to the detective is seen as something out of the ordinary, even in something abnormal. Amazing fact: Ladies often bought pictures rivals, which are required fortuneteller or a psychic, and a visit to the latter seems to them a more "normal" than the appeal to me.
"Itself Detective" This is, in my opinion, the most difficult barrier. All of us in soul syschitsa, and read numerous detectives tell us that the difficulties in general, no. Why pay money to someone, if I myself will do no worse? As a result, spent a lot of time and nerves on fruitless attempts. Let just come along to a simple idea – everyone should do their job. We need a haircut – go to the hairdresser, it is necessary to repair the valve – call a plumber, was over milk – buy it in a store rather than going out of town to catch cow, which also do not know how to milk. If the information is required – call to the detective.